Or vice versa.
There is a simple solution. From a young age you introduce them to the idea that actually it doesn’t matter and that they need to find happiness from within, because you really never wanted either of them and as soon as legally possible the only happiness they will have is from within.
Birth order is never in question.
A mother of six told me: “We always wanted to have four children. But after the third we had the twins. And the sixth was a complete accident.”
While said sixth child was in the room with us.
Welcome to the world of the living, clone
Trick question, they were both not planned since the plan was to have 1
Instead of ‘or vice versa’, I originally had ‘or both’. But yeah, this is accurate
What if the plan was to have twins?
Up there with your retirement planning being to win the lottery.
Neither were planned, plan was to have 0. Mistakes were made, but hopefully for the kids, not regretted.
Schrödinger’s accident ?
No, Shakespeare’s sequel to Hamlet: To be or not to be born.
How would that even work?