• crossdl@leminal.space
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    12 days ago

    This is unironically on reddit right now. People lamenting a place like Lemmy doesn’t exist.

    I’m less worried about Discord, honestly.

    • Ilandar@lemm.ee
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      12 days ago

      Discord is far worse in this context, though. Much of reddit is still publicly visible and is still indexed by some search engines, even if it could be better. Discussions from years ago are still visible and provide useful information to many (this is part of the reason “search term + reddit” became such a popular query template). When communities move to Discord, many of their conversations become completely private to anyone who isn’t a member. The conversations move quickly and there is no easy way for people to reference past information. I get that people on Lemmy hate reddit and it’s popular to circlejerk about it, but forums being replaced by things like Discord and Telegram that aren’t equivalents at all has been much more damaging.

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      11 days ago

      Discord was never ‘user-friendly’. It always gave me nerd, incel, neurodiverse, or weirdo vibes so not something I would miss much although I probably qualify as nerd, neurodiverse, and weirdo (but not incel, never that).

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        2 days ago

        It definitely let people create insulated pockets. Is there a chat app that doesn’t do that? Telegram?

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      11 days ago

      You’ve just positively changed my life and that of my friends by posting this link. Thank you so much!!

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      11 days ago

      That is really helpful. Thank you for posting!

      Dunno why he didn’t link sex forums. I am sure there are some nice ones out there!

  • shapis@lemmy.ml
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    11 days ago

    What are we going to do about it?

    Quit whining about it and make a good community outside of those.

    Be a good community member yourself.

    I see myself coming less and less to Lemmy due to how monotopic this place is. And how aggressively stupid people here can be.