• boonhet@sopuli.xyz
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    She’s still a little kid. They made her suffer.

    I think that’s needlessly infantilizing her. She’s 22. She’s not a “little kid”. I think she’s old enough for her opinions to carry weight, so how is she a “little kid”?

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      I absolutely think of 22 as a little kid, but I was there when the last Woolly Mammoth died, so it’s somewhat relative.

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        Idk, to me “little kid” means “not in school yet”. It’s the “little” that makes the difference, compared to just calling someone a kid or kiddo.

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        Well someone who is above 40 will probably think of her as a little kid while someone who 28 for example will probably think that they are close in age. Though this doesn’t matter no one deserves to be treated like this regardless of age.

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        I’m not going to take political opinions from a 3 year old, which is about what I’m thinking when someone says “little kid”. Teenagers, like she was when she got famous, can have enough context about the world that their opinions, particularly about things like sustainability, equality, etc, are valid.

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          I mean, I feel you, I remember aggroing over verbiage like that when I was younger, but as I am now approaching my upper 30s, I find myself referring to basically 25 yos and under as ‘kids’, its not necesarrily always meant in a demeaning, infantilzing way, can be meant more in the sense of…

          … ‘has their whole life ahead of them still, it shouldn’t be marred or maimed or traumatized this early’ /

          / ‘they are adults technically yes, but they have far less experience than most other adults’ /

          / ‘they are too young to be beset by such cruelty and hardship, there should be other adults being better adults such that these awful things do not happen.’

          I guess what I am trying to say is it becomes a kind of genuine, broad protective connotation, not trying to be belittling, moreso a lament that the world has failed.

          Maybe call it a bungled attempt at intergenerational solidarity.

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            The thing is, she wasn’t just called a kid, but a “little kid”.

            Sure, I’d call early 20s kids too. Hell, I’m a kid, I’m only turning 30 this year. But I wouldn’t call someone a “little kid” once they hit their teenage years. The “little” is what makes the difference in tone. Could’ve said “she’s just a kid” and it would’ve been a believable attempt at intergenerational solidarity.

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              21 hours ago

              Keep in mind that we’re talking about a translation here. The phrase quoted might not have the same connotations in Turkish as it does in English.

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                Oh shit I didn’t ever clock that, yeah, yeah this kind of slight difference in phrasing between acceptable and unnaceptable stuff gets a million times more confusing when you are literally moving between languages.

                Great example of that: Why are there so many different Bible translations and why do so many people argue about which one is better?

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        There’s 150 comments in this one post, having a couple about this one thing - which I also thought was off - is fine and good.

        It’s ok for people to point out bad things in something you agree with overall.

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        I’m sorry, I just think that the zionist actions are bad by default but news articles shouldn’t minimize the people that defy them?

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          That’s fair. And I completely agree with you, in general

          But, you knew there was a but coming, it was the person who saw the beating that actually said she is a kid. And, in this case at least it seems, that the media was just quoting them.

          Plus, in my view, the sentence of “Israeli terrorists beat a kid” is worse than “Israeli terrorists beat an adult”.
          So, to me, it looked like you were nitpicking and trying to minimise their actions by pointing out Greta isn’t a child. It seems I got that bit wrong and I apologise.

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      Depends on how old the person saying that. I’m only in my late 30’s and anyone in their early 20’s does feel like a kid. Yes, 22 is an adult, but you’ve barely just scratched the surface of life experiences.

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        I agree. There are also a lot of older people on the flotilla and Greta’s age and mannerism could easily lead someone to refer to her in this framing. There are probably people on those boats who have grandkids her age and absolutely have kids her age or older.

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          Exactly! They’re not infantilizing her, they’re just describing her as they see her: as still basically a kid with one foot into adulthood.

          I feel like it’s mostly younger people disagreeing tbh. No one older seriously looks back on their young adulthood and goes “yup, I had everything figured out then! That was totally my peak!”…well, unless your Al Bundy obsessing over high school football games.

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        Thing is, the older people get, the more selfish they seem to get too. The entire world burning down in 10 years doesn’t matter if you’re 98. So more life experience isn’t automatically more credible.

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          That’s a bullshit generalization, or “stereotype”. Jane Goodall just died at a ripe old age and she was a saint. You’re not debating, just throwing bullshit assumptions out and acting like you just wrote a thesis paper on experience.

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            There’s always exceptions.

            That doesn’t change this:

            And in general, if you look at politicians, the few who actually fight for the future are on the younger side (think AOC, Mamdani, etc). Yes, obviously there are exceptions. Bernie Sanders being a huge one.

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              Cool, now let’s talk about the overwhelming majority of today’s youth leaning right. If young people are so much smarter why are so many of them falling into that trap?

              Oh shit, it’s almost like making generalizations leads to you spouting bullshit out of context. I can just as easily paint today’s youth as absolute morons.

              But you’re so ready to be like “old people dumb and evil” that you forget this is all about calling Greta " a child". You know, like your grandma might do to your adult self because, from her perspective, you still are.

              Go touch some grass you fucking loser. We’re talking about someone being abused and you’re nitpicking over the definition of “child”. You’ve missed the mark so far you’re not even in the same stadium.

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                I’m talking natural leanings vs all the young people currently being exposed to right wing propaganda which is different.

                There’s a common saying “you’ll grow out of liberalism” among older conservatives.

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                  Oh, you have a SAYING?!? Omg, another vague generalization? Holy shit, how have we as a species survived for so long without your wisdom, Plato??? You need to tell the masses!

                  Hey everyone, this guy has boiled down all of politics to a few simple sayings! We’ve found the Messiah!

                  Fucking dumbass 😑

                  Again, this is about someone older referring to a young person as “still a child”. That’s it, you fucking tool. How daft are you?

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                    Look, it’s been statistically documented that people lean farther right as they get older, because they’re more successful and more sheltered from life without social safety nets. It’s natural, it’s called “fuck you, got mine”.

                    You were essentially saying someone in their 20s isn’t worth listening to. YOU are part of the problem. We should be considering the opinions of the people who have to live on this planet for another 50-70 years, not exclusively those who are dying soon and couldn’t give a fuck about the future.

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        I feel that anyone in their 30s is a child.

        You’ve only had 15 years at being an adult what would you know

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          Yes, I am still young and there’s much to learn still. Just there’s EVEN MORE OF THAT for younger people. It’s called perspective.