Finding a village first implies you are not part of the village. Yah probably hate kids lol.

Childfree people aren’t selfish. People who hate children for existing are though. No one is forcing you to have kids. False victim hood bullshit.

I’m having a hard time understanding how self centered some people are. You can be uncomfortable with their kids and still enjoy their company.

I don’t know a single parent who “figures out their village” before having kids. If anything, having kids sheds the selfish dipshits like you.