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  • NaibofTabr@infosec.pubtoAsk Lemmy@lemmy.world*Permanently Deleted*
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    7 days ago

    The spear in the Other’s heart
    is the spear in your own:
    you are he.

    There is no other wisdom,
    and no other hope for us
    but that we grow wise.

    -attributed to Surak

    as written by Diane Duane in Spock’s World

    Empathy is not some mere emotion that you feel - a fleeting reaction to some external sensation. Empathy is an intentional shifting of perspective, where you experience another’s circumstances as if they were your own.

    This is a skill, meaning that it is something which you learn through practice, and that you do on purpose, until the doing of it becomes instinctive and no longer requires intent.

    To say “I do not feel empathy” is to give yourself an excuse not to practice. This is a cop-out, used by weak people. Do not wait to “feel” it before you practice. Always remember you do not practice only for the sake of other people, but for the sake of your own growth and edification.