• compostgoblin@slrpnk.net
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    18 hours ago

    To be fair, I don’t think being high around my coworkers sounds like a fun time. Drinking a few beers once a year at the Christmas party is more than enough for me

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      18 hours ago

      It’s a shame, really.

      Back in my restaurant days, hanging out after and getting loose really made everyone work together better.

      Though I can’t see doing this in a business environment - it’s just not the same.

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        16 hours ago

        In my restaraunt experience, those parties worked because it was organic. Part of it is that you’re probably working nights and weekends, making it harder to socialize with people outside your industry or similar CS professions. Part of it is overlap in demographic, probably being under 25, in school or recent graduate, from the same town or 2, and have similar incomes, which dictates affordability of activities.

        Moving into a regular office environment means your off-hours are the same as the rest of the working population. All different incomes, ages, kid counts, living locations, etc. At my job, the core department has pretty good overlap and after-hours things are generally organized by department heads. They recognize the cohesion. But sometimes, HR takes a crack at a company-wide gig and it’s awkward. Not drastically, as it’s only about 70 people, but we fall into the preexisting groups, mostly based on department. It’s fine when it’s the Christmas party during normal hours, but it just doesn’t work when it’s a bar after hours.

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    18 hours ago

    If alcohol was discovered today, it would be considered as harmful a substance as opium and it would be banned. But humans have been consuming it for thousands of years, so it’s been normalized and grandfathered into society.

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      13 hours ago

      Beer is arguably the foundation of human society. Grain (and the harvesting of it) is a building block of civilization, and beer is inextricably linked to that.

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      Opium is being consumed for at least 5000 years, and has only been banned (mostly) in the last 150 years. In the 19th century there were two opium wars between western powers and China because the latter banned the use and import of opium. So opium was definitely grandfathered and normalized not too long ago.

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      17 hours ago

      We’ve been doing opium for thousands of years and still deem it harmful enough to ban. Hell, it’s bad enough that it has actually been used as a weapon in the past to destabilize nations.

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      16 hours ago

      I’ve been told that enjoying cocaine with your coworkers is ok, if you’re in finance.

      Or in the White House.

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    18 hours ago

    I think you can take “coworkers” out of this shower thought. Beer = okay. Opium = not okay.

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      There’s a certain inherent nastiness to alcohol. A definite taint that shouts “I am poison” or “this stuff is good for cleaning engine parts”.

      Opium, not so much. More of a warm floral hug.

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        16 hours ago

        But consuming beer is within the parameters of the law inexplicably (in most jurisdictions, as allowed by age).

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    15 hours ago

    You should have seen some of the work cocaine parties I’ve seen. But granted, I’ve never seen a work-related opium event.