explain the feelings behind transitioning to me, a cisgender?

SEX = Physical characteristics of a body assigned at birth

GENDER = The gender someone identified as along the gender spectrum, such as male or female

Transgender people experience gender dysphoria where they are born one gender but their body doesn’t match the gender they where born with say someone was born male but their body was female or they where born female but where born with a male body

Having a body that doesn’t match the gender you where born with can he debilitating for trans people

The closest way I could describe how it feels is to imagine someone body swapped a cis person into the opposite sex body, the cis person would feel uncomfortable in that body because it’s the opposite sex to the gender rather identify with

Is it a matter of societal forces imposing masculine expectations because of your physical characteristics when ultimately, what you feel deep down are effeminate characteristics of the true you? (Or am I wrongly assuming that one is transitioning to another gender and not instead to non-binary?)

I feel like my above answer would be a better explanation to this in addition to my following answer to this

I feel like this is a smaller part of the entire trans experience

Transgender people’s experiences aren’t really binary, it’s more of a spectrum

So I can’t answer for every trans person but personally as a currently closeted trans woman I do hate societal forces imposing masculine ideals on me

I may need more clarification on this question because in 90% sure of it but theres still the 10% I’m unsure about

I personally don’t like to apply masculine or feminine labels to my own characteristics because they are a part of what makes me and I don’t see them as masculine or feminine

yes to the first, if society was more receptive to, say, masculine women or effeminate men at face-value, would that have made you more comfortable prior to transitioning?

I cannot answer this as I’m closeted so haven’t physically transitioned yet

Bit off topic here but this does remind of how I don’t like the unrealistic portrayals of strong women in movies and media

A lot of movies and media like to potray strong women as Mary Sue’s or just write a male character but just change the sex to female

I feel this doesn’t portray strong women in movies and media realistically at all because it doesn’t realistically protray the experiences, feels, struggles, etc of women and there can be strong women who choose to be feminine and / or sexy as well

So I don’t think society is fully understanding of masculine women and effeminate men just as they aren’t fully understanding of Transgender people unless they go out of their way to properly study and learn theese things

I’m interested in better understanding how this sort of realignment for lack of a better word improves the feelings of gender dysphoria if it’s more an internal pressure than one imposed upon you by society.

I assune your talking about transitioning here

Trans people transitioning their body to align with the physical characteristics of the gender the align with can alleviate or get rid of the symptoms of gender dysphoria

In terms of physical attraction, are say MtF by the statistics more attracted to M or F, or is it split, are the bisexual/asexual/pansexual, or is data unclear? Is the aspect of gender dysphoria entirely decoupled from the notion of partner attraction (gay, straight, etc.)?

Personally I’m attracted to women which would make me trans lesbian or lesbian which some trans women who are lesbian have portmanteau’d into the term “transbian” but not every trans women will use the “transbian” term as it’s personal preference

I thought I was straight before I realised I was a trans woman

I also have this weird imposter syndrome (I don’t know if I’m using the right term) where it does feel weird to call myself lesbian because I’m still closeted and haven’t physically transitioned yet so I look down, see a male body and it feels weird to call myself lesbian even though I’m I know I’m a trans woman who just hasn’t physically transitioned yet because I’m still closeted.

I do also read and watch a lot of girls love / wlw / yuri content because I feel I can relate to it both because I’m a trans woman and because I’m lesbian

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I’ve tried to answer your questions to the best of my understanding, sorry if I misunderstood something because sometimes it can take a while for it to fully click mentally for me