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    • What is your name?
    • What is your quest?
    • What is the air-speed velocity of an unladen swallow?
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    • What music do you like?

    • MAGA?

    If you like music, and hate MAGAs, we can be good friends.

    If you dont like music, and hate MAGAs, we can probably still be friends.

    If you LOVE the music I love, but are MAGA, then you can fuck right off. I don’t hang with Nazis, no matter what your musical tastes are.

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    • hey, my name is _____, what’s yours?
    • are you looking for new friends?
    • great I do _____ on ______ days, would you like to join?
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      This is great. But how do you deal with people that you’ve invited to an event that’s public, and you didn’t gel with them?

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        you didn’t gel with them?

        Then you don’t become friends with them. If you really want to, just make small talk and be acquaintances.

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    • Is modern medicine a scam?
    • Is the current political world trend good or bad?
    • Do you respect transgender people?

    Reasoning:

    • Are they conspiracy theorists
    • Are they pro oppression and racism
    • Are they tolerable of people who are seen as extremely outside of the standard norms and recognize that they don’t pose a threat to them personally
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      I know a few who would answer skyrim, avengers and ???. They’re kinda nice but also insanely lame and boring.

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    What brings you happiness or joy in life?

    What do you do for fun?

    What’s one thing you’d 100% recommend to someone brand new to the world?

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    1. Do you like Anime?
    2. Do you like Attack on Titan/Death Note?
    3. What do you think about Eren/Light?
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      Yes, but I haven’t watched a ton.

      Those two are my favorites of what I’ve seen (outside of Ghibli, which I feel like is a category unto itself).

      I haven’t seen the last season of Attack on Titan, so don’t spoil it, but I feel like Eren is complicated enough that I’m not going to form a full opinion until I see how it plays out. Light, however, I think is an irredeemable sociopath that justified his murderlust by going after socially convenient targets until he decided it didn’t matter anymore, and began to think of himself as a god.

      Fucking excellent storytelling, but I didn’t care for the L replacement kid

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      Enterprise D - I like the carpet.

      Heath Ledger.

      Immolate - I’m not a destroyer, but $20 is $20.

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      • Either (checkered|erratic|anaglyph)
      • (Castle|satellite) for artwork , square joker + pair of trousers combo bcus most runs end up playing 2 pairs
      • Cryptid
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      Red

      Batter

      Shit I can’t remember most of them, but the “add 3 enchanted aces” is pretty solid (that is a spectral effect, right?)

      As you might be able to tell, I play pretty conservatively. Though that might change once I’ve unlocked more.

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      The one I imagine where every right wing conservative is given a haymaker of justice.

      The original tv Batman series was great growing up.

      I’m too much of a nerd to understand - is this all a balatro reference?

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    My only question is “What are the four essential freedoms of free software?”. If they can list them I know they’re alright

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      • Free as a bird, and this bird you cannot change
      • Free to do what I want, any old time
      • Free ride, take it easy
      • Ok I ran out of songs now. Free as in malloc?
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        Close enough, you’re cool. Here’s the actual list though (wiki link):

        • Freedom 0: The freedom to use the program for any purpose.
        • Freedom 1: The freedom to study how the program works, and change it to make it do what you wish.
        • Freedom 2: The freedom to redistribute and make copies so you can help your neighbor.
        • Freedom 3: The freedom to improve the program, and release your improvements (and modified versions in general) to the public, so that the whole community benefits.
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          Hehe, I was just poking fun. I love FOSS and don’t disagree intellectually with this stuff, but the way it’s presented is a little off-putting to me. A bit too dogmatic for me.

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    Just be interested and ask them questions about their life and hobbies and see if they do the same.

    It’s a starting place. The rest depends on building trust and respect and common interests.

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      Oof. Guys be interested in people i don’t know anything about… In this day and age?

      Fuuuuuuuxk im cooked

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    Do you drink coffee black?

    What do you think of motorcycles?

    What is the highest elevation you have hiked to?

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      Sometimes, depends on the coffee…

      They’re neat. Don’t own one.

      I live in the Great plains… So maybe like a +100 ft.

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        Thank you for the reply. But check your elevation where you live, if I had any money I’d bet that where you sleep is much higher than 100’ elevation :)

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      I don’t drink coffee. Don’t care if you do. But I do think people who “have to have my coffee,” are weird.

      I think motorcycles are cool. I totally get the appeal of feeling the road, the wind on your body, the excitement of letting it open up on a straightaway. I just don’t think I could have one where I’m at and make it to the end of the year alive. Too many fucking truck princesses and a third of the drivers here drive like dog shit.

      The highest elevation I’ve been to while hiking was just a bit over 9,000 ft. My group of four were bummed when we realized that not everyone (myself included) was gonna be able to make it to the top, as we weathered out. It was cold as fuck up there. We started seeing snowflakes coming down up ahead on the mountain. I ended up realizing that I would have become a rescue issue if I voted to go up. You live and you learn.

      How about yourself?

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        I enjoy coffee but I mostly quit caffeine a few years ago so I don’t need my coffee. I do enjoy a quality water-processed decaf a couple of times a week. I like strong and black, no sweetener.

        I’ve owned a few motorcycles and technically I still do but it isn’t running and isn’t a priority this year. I have other things I’m investing in. You can ride anywhere if you learn to ride super defensively and wear quality gear head to foot.I want to come home to my family every time. It’s a ton of fun though and I like to go motocamping.

        I like to hike mountains but I’m currently in the eastern US so I only make it to nice mountains about every other year. The Smokies have great challenging hikes but they’re no fourteeners. I know that number doesn’t make sense to metric people. I’ve hiked seven mountains over 14k feet, a few of them more than once. The tallest is Mount Whitney in California, the highest point in the contiguous 48 states. I’d like to travel to climb something taller. I’d like to also climb Mount Rainier even though it’s a little shorter, just for the winter mountaineering. I already own snow shoes, crampons, Ice axe etc. I’m getting older so it’s getting higher on my bucket list.

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    The one I thought of was actually “What do you think about astrology?”

    The answer I am looking for is neither that they believe or don’t believe it, I want to hear something between. Something like

    “It’s fun! I love seeing the connections between people born with similar birthdays and stuff, and honestly it does seem accurate sometimes. But also I don’t live by it! What about you?”

    This open, honest way of communicating is what’s important. Didn’t knock the idea down or support it 100%, just approached with an open mind.

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      Sometimes knocking an idea down is justified, especially in the case of astrology.

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        Why? I don’t see how astrology hurts anybody (unless people take it to extremes, like not dating someone because of their signs or something like that.)

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      Having an open mind is great and all, but once you’ve gathered enough information to take a position you’re not obligated to coddle those who remain willfully ignorant. I’ve personally never found astrology “fun,” it’s stupid woo that encourages people to adopt other stupid woo. At a time when anti-intellectualism is being institutionalized into government policy (in the US at least,) I don’t see how anyone in good faith can actively encourage that.

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        I don’t take astrology that seriously, it’s more of a conversation starter or a tool for introspection. Sometimes I see things about my birthdate that help me notice new things about myself, and sometimes it just seems made up.

        Connecting astrology to anti-intellectualism is a pretty big reach in my opinion. I don’t think the ideas of astrology, religion, magic, etc should be applied to policy that impacts anybody else.

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          But, magical thinking can creep into policy, often with disastrous results.

          A more solid footing can be achieved by consulting science educators, for perspective about our place in the universe.

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            I see your point - but there’s always going to be questions science can’t answer because science is based only on what we can observe and measure.

            A big one is “where did everything come from”

            So I don’t see a way of avoiding magical or spiritual thinking - it’s likely more important to separate that from fact when making decisions that effect more than just you :)

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      My answer would be something along the lines of: I think astrology is vague enough to apply pretty generally, but the interesting thing about it is seeing people’s reactions. It’s a social placebo, and we can see how different people read into the same thing. “A new experience awaits you, Aries” and we see one person anticipating a raise a work, and thus behaving more confidently and getting it, while another is expecting divorce papers, and their behavior is helping them to reach that goal, too.

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        Pretty fair view on astrology! I have some friends/family members who have very close birthdays and it’s actually remarkable how similar they are in certain ways. I feel like I typically see the similarities in the way they handle things like relationships, power dynamics, confidence, and they sort of thing.

        For example I know many Geminis, and one pattern I’ve noticed is that they are all passive aggressive types. Like they won’t tell you about a problem until it’s too late, and then they will boil over and you’ll end up in a fight about something that could have been resolved so much easier.

        Could that be confirmation bias on my part? Definitely. But still it’s a fun tool for introspection if you don’t take it too far :) I also like to think of the history behind it and how humans developed it in such a human way just from observations.

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      I like so many kinds of music that it would take me 10 or so minutes just to craft a list for you. But to give perspective, I’m into Classical music, Speed Metal, Indie Pop, House music, Electric Swing, Ambient, some Hip Hop, Phonk, Progressive Metal, etc.

      Not sure how to answer this one. So I’ll take it as an ‘ultimate day with the guys’ list… Keanu Reeves, Robin Williams, Samuel L. Jackson, Jon Stewart, and Mike Rowe.

      Yeah, I can’t even remember the names of the gals I would for the first two. As for kill, and get away with it… Well, he’s dead, but I would bring him back again just so I could kill him for us all. Ronald Reagan.