• chunes@lemmy.world
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    3 minutes ago

    One time I got an A- on a book report only having read the back of the book. Still don’t know how I pulled it off.

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    3 hours ago

    At some point I stopped judging myself compared to some hypothetical ideal and instead compared myself to real world outcomes achieved by regular people. Life has been a lot easier ever since.

    • neidu3@sh.itjust.worksM
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      Same. I have the kind of work where technical improvisation and ability to put out proverbial fires (no real ones… yet) are key aspects, and while planning is a useful tool, it can only get me so far. There have been times where I deliberately skip a lot of the planning and purposefully go in blind to make sure I keep my edge. I only do this when I know there are resources and infrastructure to allow for alternatives, though.